What to Do when a Spouse Leaves You

  posted by: Amber Ford



What to Do when a Spouse Leaves YouBeing dumped by a partner is so hard to deal with, more so if your spouse who has been with you for several years leaves you. It is such a painful situation to handle, especially if you are deeply in love with your spouse. It is even worse if you don’t know the reasons for leaving you behind. It becomes the worst when you are left alone with your children. You are left shocked and anguished. It’s difficult to accept that you are dumped by your husband or wife after giving all the love you have. No matter how painful it is, there’s nothing you could do but to face it and deal with it. What you need to do is to find strategies on how you can cope with this situation. Learn some tips and ways on what to do when a spouse leaves you.

  • Accept that it’s over. When it sinks in that he has left you alone, there’s nothing you could do but to accept this. Don’t make yourself look like you are so desperate to have him back. Don’t go to him and beg.
  • Let him go. If leaving you makes him happier, then let him go wherever he wants to go to. Do not go after him after he has left you.
  • Be positive. Think of the good side. You may not see what good does it do to you for now but eventually you will find something to be thankful for.
  • Help yourself. Survival is greater when you help yourself. How? Go out with friends and have fun. Don’t just sit in a corner and pity yourself for what happened.
  • Stay strong. You need to be strong for yourself and for your kids who are greatly in need of you at this point. They just lost a family and you are the only one left. Make your kids a source of your inspiration to go on with your life now that he is gone.
  • Have faith in Him. Pray for your sorrow. Ask His help and guidance. You will overcome anything with His divine help.

It already happened to you and you have to face it with all your might. You can make it though with the help of the people who love you. Don’t let loneliness kill your hope.




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Date: September 29, 2011 | Category: General
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