What if your Boyfriend is Gay?

  posted by: Amber Ford



boyfriend has gay tendenciesGays are fun people to be with. They have a good sense of humor which means that you will never have dull moments with them. You can also depend on them for many things. Their creativity and wit paved their way to the society. Before, they were condemned by the society and church so they had to hide their true colors. But now they are out in the open.  They are very welcome in the society. They have huge contributions in various industries and this helps them gain respect from people. There are girls who are into dating a gay.

However, there are still gays who pretend like straight guys. They are coward to show the world their true colors. To make it even convincing, they enter in boy-girl relationships. You see them walking at the park together with their girlfriend. Now, you think that your boyfriend is trying to hide something form you. You’re suspicious of his gender. How to know if he’s really gay? Let’s look into the following signs and check if your boyfriend has them. Most people share things that are unique to them.

  • He is very meticulous with his hair. He spends several minutes in the bathroom.
  • He is fascinated with the songs of divas.
  • He is into watching pageants.
  • He loves prestigious awards like the Emmys, the Golden Globes, and the Grammys among others.
  • When you’re together and there are straight men around you, he stares at them.
  • He possesses homosexual pornography.
  • He gets conscious when there are guys around.
  • He appreciates things about you that most men don’t.
  • His has vanity kit full of beauty supplies.

Once you have confirmed that your boyfriend is actually gay, what are you going to do now? How are you going to take it?

  • If he’s been hiding it to you for a long time, it’s actually a form of cheating. A normal reaction would be you will get mad at him. Tell him how painful it is to be cheated upon. You have the right to get angry.
  • Knowing that he is gay is actually a test of your love and relationship. If you can overcome it, you’ll be a lot happier.
  • Ask yourself if you are still willing to be with him or not now that you know that he’s not the guy you thought he was. If you can accept him for who he is, then that would be great. Only a few could do it.
  • Ask him what he really wants to do with his life. Does she want to be with you and go on with what you have started or does he want you to set him free?
  • If you can’t stick together because you no longer respect him, let him go. There’s no point keeping your relationship if this is the case. Help him find his true identity.

It’s better to discover it earlier than discovering it after the wedding. At least now, you know if you are going to pursue marriage or not.




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