Tips to Avoid being an Obsessive Girlfriend

  posted by: Amber Ford

 

 

Tips to Avoid being an Obsessive GirlfriendWhen you are in a relationship, you expect your partner to give you his or her full attention. You want to be the center of your boyfriend’s or girlfriend’s attention. You want to be the apple of the eye. When you see your partner with other people, you seem to feel threatened. You simply want the person to be at your side for always. It is this kind of attitude that makes one possessive or obsessive which is not healthy. You can avoid being one with the following tips on how to avoid being an obsessive girlfriend.

  • Give him space. This is to show respect to his individuality. Let him do his hobbies. Allow him to go out and have fun with his friends. Do not put limitation to his world. Instead, give him the support that he needs.
  • Let him make decisions. Allow your boyfriend to make decisions. You should give him the freedom to exercise his right. Avoid intruding to his decisions and plans if he is not asking your opinion or ideas. Just make him feel that you are there to give him support in whatever decisions he makes. Furthermore, do not force him to be a part in your decision making. Ask for help but don’t pressure him.
  • Have your own hobbies or commitments. Spend your time for your career or hobbies. Do not focus all your attention to your boyfriend. This will suffocate him. You need to get a life too.
  • Be open-minded. Bear in mind that you cannot always be right. You should accept his ideas and suggestions too. Try to absorb what he tells you. Avoid insisting your own ideas.

If you a healthy relationship, you should avoid being one. Try not to be an obsessive girlfriend and you will enjoy the benefits of being into a healthy relationship.

 

 

 

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Date: November 29, 2012 | Category: General
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