Signs of an Unhappy Marriage

  posted by: Amber Ford



signs of unhappy marriageWhen something is wrong with your marriage, you feel it. When something is wrong with your spouse, you also feel it. You may not find it right away but eventually you will discover it. But can you also immediately tell that your marriage is becoming unhappy? What are the signs of an unhappy marriage? We have a list of some obvious and implied signs that your marriage is no longer happy.

  • Frequent arguments/ fights. Your marriage is in trouble if there are frequent disagreements between you and your spouse. You often make little things complicated. You don’t want to compromise.
  • Disrespect and abusive behavior. This is another sign of a troubled marriage. You call each other harsh names and you deliberately hurt each other. You yell at each other.  You no longer care for the feelings of each other. Some couples even reach the point where in they throw objects at each other. Violence is an obvious sign that your relationship is no longer working. Abusive treatment is too much.
  • Communication gap. If you suffer from communication problems, then your marriage is in trouble. Imagine yourself living with a person whom you cannot talk to. I don’t think anyone could ever survive. Your spouse is supposed to be the first person you talk to when you have problems or anything to share. But if you can no longer do it with your spouse, you are in trouble.
  • Intimacy issues. You no longer kiss each other passionately. You let days go by without even hugging or cuddling. You have been neglecting lovemaking. A sexless marriage is unhappy and unhealthy. The passion is gone.
  • You attend to parties or social events but you arrive and leave separately. This could mean that you are not happy to be together.
  • You don’t want to spend time together. You keep yourselves busy and you prefer to be out than to be home.
  • Infidelity. Cheating on your spouse is a symbol that you are unhappy with your marriage. It is very hard to recover from the pain brought by this act.

Other signs include depression, selfishness, and dishonesty. If you see these 10 signs and pictures in your marriage and you want to save it, you better do something before it gets too late. Figure out the causes and find solutions. Recognizing the signs actually helps in finding solutions.




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Date: June 12, 2011 | Category: Marriage Problems
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