Should You Break Up With Your Girlfriend?

  posted by: Amber Ford



breaking up wih girlfriendBreaking up with your girlfriend is not an easy task, more so if you really love the person. Breaking up with her would mean breaking your own heart. It’s hard to let go of someone you really love and you dream of growing old with. However, there are instances where in you have no choice but to let go of that someone so that you can start to love yourself again. When should a breakup occur? What are some reasons to break up with your girlfriend? Take a look at the following:

  • She tries to be in control all the time. It’s fine to let your partner to be in control sometimes but not all the time, especially if you are the guy. Even a wife does not have the right to be domineering to her husband all the time. Don’t let her dictate the things that you have to do.
  • She is over-possessive: Jealousy is a manifestation of love but if she tries to keep you away from your friends and from the things that you love because she wants your attention, then you are into a toxic relationship. It’s no longer healthy. You have your own life to live. She should not hinder you from doing the things you love. Your girlfriend is suffocating. Break-up with her and breathe some air.
  • She always argues with you: If she always starts a fight out of silly things, well, there’s something wrong with her not with you. She’s scary. Let go of her and find someone better.
  • She has a dangerous addiction: Is she into drugs or alcohol? Her addiction could lead to the destruction of your relationship. Before she does something that may ruin your personality, let go of her. After the break up you will be relieved.
  • She cheats on you: Cheating has no excuses. If she loves you and she cares for you, she won’t entertain any thoughts of infidelity. She doesn’t respect you as a boyfriend.
  • You don’t love her: There are instances in which one just needs the other person that’s why a relationship is established. If you are just using your girlfriend for some reason and you don’t love her, well, it’s better to end the relationship.
  • You’re in love, but she isn’t: For a seesaw to be balanced, one person should be on each side just like in love. It won’t work if only one is in love.
  • She humiliates you: If she keeps on humiliating you even in public, then that means she doesn’t care at all.

Love is a wonderful feeling when you share it with the right person. But if your girlfriend has the aforementioned characteristics, then she’s not the right person for you. Let goof her. Break up with her and move on. Learn form your ex. Keep on dating until you find the right one for you. It may take a long time but it will be worth the wait. Don’t lose hope. Be patient. She’s just somewhere waiting for you.




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