How to Save a Rocky Relationship

  posted by: Amber Ford



How to Save a Rocky Relationship At times, relationships face hard times. The road for the couple is just so rough. The flow of the relationship is not smooth. Humps are everywhere and they are just unavoidable.  Dilemmas are really a part of every relationship. The challenge lies on how you handle them. The way you manage them reflects how much you value the relationship. Your willingness to save a rocky relationship shows that you want to keep it. You want to revive the feelings you have for each other. You can get a fresh start with the following tips on how to save a rocky relationship.

  • Evaluate the relationship. What is the real score between you and your partner? How bad are the situations that you face currently? Is your partner willing to work on it? Is it really worth saving? These are just some questions that you have to deal with.
  • Talk to your partner. Communicating is the best tool in addressing your problems. Talk about your feelings. Open up and be honest about what you feel and think. Discuss the things that brought the turmoil in your relationship. Make a plan on how you can resolve those. Both parties need to have a role to play in turning the plans into actions.
  • Understand each other. Another key to saving a relationship is by understanding each other. There are reasons behind what you see and hear in your partner. There are reasons behind the things that are happening in your relationship. Find those reasons and from there, you will start to understand the situation.
  • Forgive each other. Mistakes have been made and there’s nothing you can do to undo them. What you can do is to forgive your partner since your goal is to save your rocky relationship. Avoid bringing up the same issues over and over again.
  • Change. Be willing to improve yourselves. Get rid of your traits that often cause conflicts. Change for the better. You will be both benefited by the change you are willing to make.
  • Seek help. If you can no longer solve the problems that you have, seeking for help may help. Ask for pieces of advice from people you can trust.

With willingness and patience, you will soon have a better relationship. I commend you for trying to save it. Good luck to you!




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Date: September 23, 2011 | Category: General
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