How to Love People for Who They Are

  posted by: Amber Ford



How to Love People for Who They AreLove is such a wonderful thing. It gives you a sense of purpose. It drives you to strive harder. It is a source of inspiration for you to go on with life no matter how tough it may seem. Love will keep you alive. Love will make you realize that life is truly a gift to be treasured. It teaches you to do things that you never thought you could. It teaches you to embrace even imperfections. It teaches you to accept people without any conditions. Truly, the great challenge of falling in love is to accept someone including his/ her flaws and imperfections. Let’s get to know some ways and tips on how to love people for who they are.

  • Love unconditionally. When you give your love to someone, you should give it without expecting anything in return. Do not ask the person to do something to return the favor.
  • Don’t dwell on the physical aspect. Loving someone should not be based on e physical appearance. You should use your heart to see what is within a person. Antoine de Saint Exupery once said that, “It is only with the heart that one can see rightly. What is essential is invisible to the eye.” If you use your eyes in loving, you will only be discouraged with imperfections.
  • Allow the person to commit mistakes. We learn from our mistakes. Don’t condemn people when they make mistakes. Let them admit what they have done and help them change to be better. When you love someone, you should love him/ her including her flaws. It’s a package deal.
  • Know your limitations. Know what imperfections you can tolerate in a partner. Don’t settle with a person who has flaws that are unacceptable for you.  If you force yourself to do so, you will be in trouble.
  • Focus on his/ her good side. Find happiness in what he/ she has. Find contentment. Don’t ask for things that the person doesn’t have.

Just be realistic when you love. Love is not about finding a perfect partner but finding a person who can make you happy even with his/ her imperfections.




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Date: September 28, 2011 | Category: General
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