How to Get your Wife Back after a Separation

  posted by: Amber Ford



getting your wife back after separationMany couples have been separated because of issues that could have been settled if there was a chance. Sad to say, some couples are very impulsive in making decisions. They make decisions when they feel angry. As a consequence, they come up with decisions that they would later regret. A divorce or separation is not the answer to marital problems. When problems arise and it seems like there’s no hope at all, couples should give themselves time to think things over before making any drastic decisions.

One sign of remorse is the feeling of wanting your spouse back after a separation. You still feel within how much you value your wife/ husband. You want to give your love another chance. Sometimes, you can get back what you have lost but more often than not, you can no longer get them back.  If you think there’s still hope for you it might be helpful to read some tips and instructions on how to get your wife back after a separation. Pay attention to the following list:

  • Think positive. Get rid of the thought that you are defeated and there’s no hope for you to be together again. If you have this kind of thinking then that will happen because it’s what you want to think. Having positive thoughts will energize you.
  • Go to her and talk. When you talk with your wife don’t be too emotional. Learn to control your emotions. Avoid being argumentative. Don’t be so defensive.
  • Reflect on the things/ issues that caused your separation. Make a promise to yourself that you will try to avoid those once you live with your wife again.
  • Give your wife a reassurance. Make promises to her but see to it that they are achievable. You will only hurt her more if you promise but you will just disappoint her.
  • Give your wife enough time. Let her discover what she would like for her future. Give her ample time to figure out how she feels about your relationship. Support her with this and don’t try to pressure her.
  • Take the responsibility for your actions. If you are at fault and you are the reason why you are going through this kind of situation, you have to be man enough to take responsibility.
  • Woo her. You need to court her once again if you have to. Recall the things that you did when you were still a suitor. How did you win her love?
  • Consider counseling. If you think you cannot work it out, then you might need the help of professional counselors.

Show her that you want her back in your life and that your life is more meaningful and colorful when you are with her. Show her that you are a changed man and that you are better. Your prayers and virtues will help you get what you want. Learn from your mistakes and try to build a better home this time.




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