How to Get your Boyfriend Understand your Needs

  posted by: Amber Ford

 

 

boyfriend and girlfriend fightingIt’s pretty frustrating when your partner doesn’t understand your needs. He doesn’t get what you want him to do. You just end up having resentments toward him. This isn’t healthy. A good relationship should make you feel free to express your feelings. This will allow your partner to understand what you want in your relationship.

If in case you are the type of person who finds it hard to communicate your emotions, wants, and needs to your partner, then it might be helpful to read and learn some tips on  how to get your boyfriend understand your needs.

  • Find a good timing to talk about what you want. Do not come upfront and enumerate all the things that you want your man to do for you. This is not the proper way to do it. There’s a need for a good communication.
  • Be sweet and romantic. When you are trying to communicate your needs to your guy, do it in a sweet manner. You can say “Honey I want this and that.” By saying it this way, you don’t sound like you are a certified demanding girlfriend. As you say it, you should cuddle with him or simply run your fingers on his hair.
  • Become a more pleasant girlfriend. If in case you’ve tried the first two tips and they didn’t work, you can try the opposite logic. Be nice to him. Be more pleasant. Give him what he needs and wants. Let him realize how lucky he is to have you. This may make him feel that he should do the same thing to you.

Try several strategies until you finally get what you want. As much as possible, don’t focus your attention to your needs that aren’t understood, rather, focus on the other side of the coin.

 

 

 

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Date: July 20, 2011 | Category: General
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