How to Delay Sex in a New Relationship

  posted by: Amber Ford



How to Delay Sex in a New RelationshipWhen a relationship is new, there’s a need for adjustment. Although you say that you love the person and you feel that you are also loved, you cannot be so sure with your emotions for each other at the first stage of your relationship. You both need to adjust emotionally and physically. Allow yourselves to get to know each other well before going deeper, especially when it comes to physical contact.

Premarital sex is becoming popular these days but you don’t have to do it just because everyone is doing it. Don’t be affected by the “band wagon effect.” Take the road not taken by many. As much as possible, do not do it until you are married. If you cannot promise this, you can at least delay it. Delaying sex may be hard but it will be worth it. Learn some tips on how to delay sex in a new relationship.

  • Avoid being too intimate with each other. This can heat things up and you might just end up in bed. Kissing is a part of a normal relationship. Enjoy it plus hugs but don’t go beyond your limitation. Don’t put yourself into a situation that could lead you to something you don’t intend to do.
  • Avoid sleepovers. If you don’t want to have sex, don’t put yourself into a tempting situation. Once you sleep together, you might not control your feelings and bodies. It’s safer when you just go home after a date.
  • Drink moderately. Once you are drunk, you will find yourself hard to control. Alcohol can make you do things that you cannot do when you are not under the spirit of alcohol.
  • Talk about it with your boyfriend. One of the best relationship tips is to discuss the matter that concerns your relationship with your partner. Be honest when you say that you aren’t ready for it yet.

When you delay sex, there’s a greater chance that your relationship will last longer. It also makes the guy think that you are the kind of woman who doesn’t sleep with anyone. You can gain his respect and he will love you even more.




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Date: September 22, 2011 | Category: General
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