How to Back out of Being Engaged

  posted by: Amber Ford

 

 

How to Back out of Being EngagedBeing engaged is one of the happiest times of your life. You feel like you are in cloud nine. It’s actually one of the moments of your life that you look forward to. However, it could also be stressful and traumatic if things happen unexpectedly. There are cases wherein couples suddenly realize that they don’t really want to be with each other and that they no longer wish to marry each other. If you have suddenly realized that you don’t see yourself spending the rest of your life with your fiancé or fiancée because of reasons that you have, you’d better back out now that you still have time. Take a look at the following ways and tips on how to back out of being engaged.

  • Spend time alone. You need time to be alone so you can reflect on what you really want to do with your life. You might just be in a state of confusion or fear at the moment. Before you tell your partner about your decision, you need to think first. Think about the things that make you unhappy about the relationship.
  • Create a distance. While you are thinking about things between the two of you, stay away from the person. Your coldness will at least prepare the person for the separation. If you are living with your partner, consider moving out.
  • Be honest. When you finally have the courage to face your partner and tell him/ her about your plan to back out, you should talk to the person in a nice and truthful manner. Whatever reasons you have for breaking the engagement, your partner deserves to know them.
  • Return the ring and get the ring that you bought back. The ring is of no use already.

Stick to your decision to break the engagement. Be firm with it.

 

 

 

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Date: September 29, 2011 | Category: General
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