How to Approach the Opposite Sex

  posted by: Amber Ford



approaching opposite sexBefore you can get a person to date you or to go on a date with you, you need to get noticed first. Catching the attention of the person you are interested with is the big challenge, that even confident people can get cold feet. Once you have caught the attention of someone, the next thing you need to do is to approach him/ her. It can make you feel nervous but it will be worth it. You need to do it and take the chance you have. Below are some tips on how to approach the opposite sex.

  • Relax. Do not make the person notice that your knees are shaking because you are too nervous. Just act naturally and display confidence, especially if you are a man. Women would love to talk to a confident man but not to an arrogant one. Have confidence in your own personality.
  • Be yourself. Do not pretend like you are someone else for the sake of impressing the person of the opposite sex. Deceiving a person is never right. Introduce yourself for who you really are and avoid fabricating information. Avoid telling too many things as well. You don’t even need to memorize cheesy pick-up lines.
  • Practice sincerity. You should mean what you say. Say it because it is true. Remember that honesty is the best policy.
  • Be polite. When you approach someone, remember your manners. Know when to talk and when to listen. Do not do all the talking at the course of your conversation.
  • Have a sense of humor. You will be more at ease and comfortable with each other’s presence when you feel lighter. Laughter can make you feel this way. Crack a joke or relate a funny story. It will even take your nervousness away.

If you’ve tried but you failed to get what you want, just think that someone out there is waiting for you. There are a lot of fish in the ocean. Keep on fishing.




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Date: May 30, 2012 | Category: General
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